Women With Children Approach Diners, Worshippers and Drivers
A woman carrying a young child entered a Kuala Lumpur restaurant, approached diners table by table and stayed after writer Jenifer C. said she had no cash. The restaurant owner eventually offered the woman a packed meal, prompting her to leave. Ten minutes later, another woman carrying a similarly sleepy child arrived and began asking for money.
Contents
- Women With Children Approach Diners, Worshippers and Drivers
- A Restaurant Encounter That Did Not End With a Refusal
- Businesses Describe Repeated Afternoon Visits
- Mosque Exits Become Collection Points
- Cartoon Costumes and QR Codes Broaden the Pattern
- Kamal Says Roadside Collections Pay More Than Cleaning
- Warnings Under the Destitute Persons Act
- Sonny Describes Pressure From Other Collectors
- Child Welfare and Household Income Need Different Responses
- What to Know
The encounter captures a pattern troubling residents and businesses across the Malaysian capital as of April 26, 2026. Groups of women accompanied by very young children are approaching pedestrians, entering restaurants without invitation and tapping on vehicle windows at traffic intersections. Some refuse to leave when customers or staff ask them to go.
Kuala Lumpur residents have long been familiar with rough sleepers sheltering in doorways and under overpasses. The concern now centres on a more active form of solicitation in commercial and religious districts. Instead of remaining in one place with an outstretched hand or a cup, people asking for money move directly towards potential donors, including in spaces where customers expect to eat or shop without interruption.
Residents describe seeing the same individuals at several locations during a day, suggesting movement between busy areas. Social media discussion has focused on whether these encounters reflect personal desperation or organised groups exploiting women and children. The ownership and organisation of any such network remain unknown.
A Restaurant Encounter That Did Not End With a Refusal
Jenifer C., a writer, described the visit during a late lunch with friends at a restaurant in the city centre. She said the woman claimed to be Palestinian but spoke to her in Hindi, and that the child she carried appeared to remain asleep throughout the encounter.
My friends and I were having a late lunch one day and suddenly, a lady dressed in black came in and started going table-to-table asking for alms. She claimed to be from Palestine but spoke to me in Hindi. Even more suspicious was how the young child she held always seemed to be sleeping.
Jenifer's response that she had no cash did not persuade the woman to move on. The owner intervened with a complimentary packed meal, after which the woman departed. The arrival of another woman with a similarly lethargic child just ten minutes later added to the concern about repeated visits.
The woman's stated background and use of Hindi drew Jenifer's attention, while the child's persistent sleepiness raised a separate concern about welfare. Observers have questioned whether unusually sleepy children might be given chemicals to keep them quiet during lengthy periods of solicitation. No direct evidence of drugging has been confirmed, and the children's condition has not been medically explained.
Businesses Describe Repeated Afternoon Visits
A restaurant cashier near Kuala Lumpur's city centre, who spoke anonymously, described recurring visits that disrupted service and unsettled paying customers. The cashier said staff had repeatedly tried to turn the women away, only to see them return.
They start appearing at about 4pm when it is not too hot. We have repeatedly turned them away as they can disturb our customers but they keep returning.
The visits extend beyond casual restaurants. Textile shops along Jalan Tuanku Abdul Rahman, a major commercial street, have also become stops for groups of women moving through the district.
Ravi, a local resident who regularly visits the area, described an increase in these rounds. The women appear to move in loose coordination, covering particular areas during busy shopping hours, when more people are present and potential donors are easier to approach.
For business owners, the immediate problem is repeated interruption. A request made at a table places the customer directly in the encounter, while staff must decide how to respond without prolonging a confrontation. The cashier's description shows why simply asking someone to leave has not ended the visits.
Mosque Exits Become Collection Points
At Masjid India, observations described a woman waiting on a walkway with a child about five years old. When Friday prayers ended and worshippers began leaving, the pair moved to the main exit and held out bags for donations.
The timing placed them directly in the path of people departing the mosque. Religious gatherings can bring together large numbers of potential donors, including people who feel a strong obligation to give to someone in need.
At the Taman Tun Dr Ismail mosque, four children stood at entrance points holding plastic containers. They silently sought donations from worshippers arriving at or leaving the premises.
The children's young ages and quiet appeals created an emotionally difficult encounter for congregants. Community concern centres on the use of children at these gathering points, alongside the deliberate positioning of people asking for money where worshippers must pass.
Cartoon Costumes and QR Codes Broaden the Pattern
Johor Bahru and Kuala Lumpur have also seen people asking for money while dressed as cartoon characters, a trend described as "upgraded beggars". Costumes depicting Super Mario, Luigi and Doraemon have appeared at night markets, petrol stations and Ramadan bazaars.
Some of those inside the costumes are children. The outfits can be elaborate and include cooling fans, equipment that helps someone remain inside a bulky costume in hot conditions. Similar Labubu costumes are advertised online for between RM600 and RM1,000.
That spending has prompted questions about whether participants are investing their own money or receiving support from organised groups. The costume price is part of the concern because obtaining an outfit can require a substantial initial payment before any donations are collected.
At one bazaar, a boy aged nine wore a frog costume and held a collection box containing Malaysian ringgit notes. When asked about the money, he said it was for himself. Another child nearby wore a grey Labubu costume and used a similar approach.
A participant aged fourteen, dressed in a pink bunny costume, displayed a QR code on a tip box to receive electronic transfers. A QR code lets a donor scan the displayed image with a payment application and send money without handing over cash. The presence of that option allows collections from people who have no notes or coins with them.
Kamal Says Roadside Collections Pay More Than Cleaning
Kamal, a retired cleaner aged sixty-one and a father of ten, defended his decision to wear a frog costume while collecting money at traffic lights. He said he could receive up to RM100 in three hours, more than he had earned through his previous cleaning work.
Kamal linked the decision to household financial pressure, including the cost of supporting children who were still at school. His account presents roadside collection as an income choice made under strain, even though approaching vehicles at traffic lights exposes participants to moving traffic.
His earnings figure also helps explain the attraction of busy intersections. Up to RM100 over three hours can make the activity seem worthwhile to someone struggling to meet family expenses. The figure describes Kamal's experience, rather than a stated earning level for everyone using costumes.
The adult collecting for school expenses, the child saying the money was for himself and the women carrying infants describe different circumstances within the same visible activity. Those circumstances matter when authorities decide whether a person needs household support, protection from exploitation or enforcement action.
Warnings Under the Destitute Persons Act
Malaysian authorities use the Destitute Persons Act to intervene in public begging. Section 2 identifies people asking for donations in public as beggars subject to legal intervention, and the legal framework described for these cases treats begging in public without appropriate permits as an offence.
Johor Bahru Social Welfare Department director Ahmad Hashim Selamat confirmed that three people wearing costumes had recently been detained at a traffic light crossing on Jalan Padi Emas 1. They were taken to the department office for processing.
The three received verbal and written warnings, then signed pledges acknowledging that repeat offences would lead to prosecution under the Act. Their release with warnings illustrates the enforcement response described in these cases, where intervention did not immediately result in prosecution.
Ahmad Hashim said most of the people encountered were not homeless vagrants. They had families and established residences. This places a practical challenge before welfare officials: assistance designed around homelessness may need to be accompanied by support for household income or help finding other work.
Skudai assemblyman Marina Ibrahim urged the public to stop giving money, arguing that donations encourage the practice to spread. She said the costume trend had moved from Johor Bahru to shopping centres in Kulai, adding another location to the areas where it had appeared.
Sonny Describes Pressure From Other Collectors
Sonny, a Rohingya woman aged sixty who supports twelve children, described being chased away by men while she wore a red tiger costume. She said the men accused her of entering their designated begging territory.
Her account raises concern about people asserting control over locations where donations can be collected. A busy junction or gathering point can become a source of income, and competing claims to that space can expose people asking for money to intimidation.
Sonny had previously sold women's accessories. She said falling sales pushed her into collecting money in costume, and maintained that she did not disturb others. Her experience also highlights the limited options described for residents facing problems with immigration documents or legal status.
The hostility she reported adds another safety concern to work already carried out near traffic. Alongside the risk of injury on the road, collectors may face pressure from others claiming particular locations as their own.
Child Welfare and Household Income Need Different Responses
Children appear throughout the encounters: infants carried into restaurants, a child about five years old near Masjid India, four children holding containers at Taman Tun Dr Ismail mosque, and participants aged nine and fourteen wearing costumes at a bazaar. Their involvement makes welfare a central part of the issue.
The persistent sleepiness described in restaurant encounters has alarmed observers, while the presence of children at entrances and intersections brings concerns about long periods spent collecting money and exposure to unsafe surroundings. The accounts place children in both direct collection roles and situations where their presence encourages adults to donate.
Ahmad Hashim's description of participants with homes and families also points to needs beyond shelter. Kamal cited school expenses, while Sonny described losing income from selling accessories. Alternative income support and help finding work address the financial pressures identified in those accounts.
Marina's appeal to withhold donations focuses on reducing the financial incentive for public solicitation. Businesses, meanwhile, face repeated interruptions, and worshippers encounter appeals at mosque entrances. Together, these experiences show why the response involves public order, family income and the protection of children, rather than a single problem with a single remedy.
What to Know
- Women carrying young children have been approaching diners, pedestrians and motorists in Kuala Lumpur, sometimes remaining after being asked to leave.
- Repeated visits have been described at restaurants and textile shops along Jalan Tuanku Abdul Rahman, with collections also occurring near mosque entrances.
- People wearing cartoon costumes have appeared in Johor Bahru and Kuala Lumpur, and Marina Ibrahim says the trend has reached shopping centres in Kulai.
- Children aged nine and fourteen were among costume participants; one displayed a QR code for electronic donations.
- Three people detained at Jalan Padi Emas 1 received warnings and signed pledges concerning prosecution for repeat offences.
- Ahmad Hashim Selamat says most participants encountered have homes and families, while Kamal and Sonny describe financial pressure.
- Concerns about organised control and the welfare of sleepy children remain unresolved, with no confirmed evidence of drugging.






